I do see how this looks but you'll all have to take my word for it that I'm not leaving dd upstairs on her own to play with matches or whatever. Thats not how out is though it may seem like that. It is the same as if I was working from home, I would have to go into an office to work occasionally and dd would have to be set up with colours, a movie...whatever. Well it is the same...I'm his carer, I'm given money by centrelink to be his carer. And I don't leave her for hours, I'm up and down all the time and I'm there in 2 seconds if she needs me.
I can't emphasise enough how much quality time I have with her, she is not neglected! What I need are ways to deal with the lies and destructive behaviour.

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