From this thread to today things got better, then got a whole lot worse - am seriously time poor tonight but need some help about what books might help us with DD (nearly 6). We are at the end of our tether and just don't know what to do... Today's gem was staying on the playground when DH walked all the way to the car after asking her to come with him and DS and she refused, stayed there and DH had to go all the way back to get her. Sounds silly on paper (screen!) but he was furious and we simply expect more of her if we ask her politely and tell her NO that she can't play on the monkey bars after school, after netball at nearly 5pm at night, then the answer is no.

Anyhoooo - add this to a million other gems like this over the few weeks and you get the gist....

Any books that we should/could read to help us?? Am The Science of Parenting or Unconditional Parenting by Koen...

Any others much appreciated... I want my kind hearted gorgeous girl back