thanks hun, ex was going to take me to court if i didnt let him see her, so i got a lawyer and he got a lawyer and we drew up a parenting agreement that is binding till she is 16, and if any one of us breaks it in anyway we can get into deep trouble!! In the agreement he is to see her every 2/3 weeks for the whole weekend. so there is nothing i can do about it

the whole system SUXS!!!!! i had an AVO out on him at the time the contract was drawn up, because he hunted me down one night at speedway, dragged me out the back where all the cars where parked and started to beat me up...........while i had chloe in my arms the security gard had to come over and pull him off us. chloe was screaming the poor little thing, i bought this up in the meeting between our lawyers and because he wasnt hitting chloe then it means nothing. He was hitting me not her so the avo meant nothing!!! the courts and the system is all for the fathers now even if its hard on the kids, they dont give a s*it.

i wish there was something i could do, but there isnt!! everytime i have asked about it, they all say the same things. a father has a right to have a relationship with there child, and a child has the right to have a relationship with there fathers.