Hun, not sure how to say this, but having your little girl sleeping with her Dad is ringing some bells in my head...are you worried at all? Is there anything to can do to get this stopped? I know you've said that you've asked him, but could you take it to mediation as you feel its not really appropriate? Can you bring out the big guns on this issue with her Dad as a first step & then worry about getting her out of your room later on?