bellabambina you have me in tears, thank you hun for your kind words
I can honestly say, everything you have said about how it was for you, is just what its like for chloe right now. She truely hates it and to make it worse she is on her own as she is an only child. plus it doesnt help when she is there that they run me to the ground infront of her, or they question her about whats mummy doing and stuff like that. it makes me wild!! chloe isnt stupid she really has an old head on her young shoulders. she comes home and crys and crys and tells me everything that happens i hate that they do this. ok fair enough if you hate me, no worries!! but dont hate in front of my child.....how dare they do this to her!! whenever we talk about her dad or her grandparents, we are always happy and excited and we pretend to like them so she feels comfortable, but i hate that they cant do that for her. when we lived closer we were always inviting her dad to come see her get awards at school, or to sports carnivals and things like that, but of course he would say NO, not a chance in hell. which is such a shame cos i know it would mean alot to chloe if her dad would come to things like that, it would even help there relationship. but you cant tell him that cos he knows everything when it comes to chloe ( so he like's to think) her old school rang me one time to tell me that chloe had been crying cos she didnt want to go to her dads, so i ring him to try and have a civil conversation with him about it and to let him know that this really is starting to become a problem, but of course he said it was b*ll s*it and there is nothing wrong with her we are all reading into it.
grrrrr i get so angry. all i want is this beautiful little girl to have a normal child hood. playing, laughing and having lots of fun. but instead she has fear, worry and lots of tears
Last edited by mummy2chloe; August 13th, 2010 at 07:16 PM.
i hate that they do this. ok fair enough if you hate me, no worries!! but dont hate in front of my child.....how dare they do this to her!! whenever we talk about her dad or her grandparents, we are always happy and excited and we pretend to like them so she feels comfortable, but i hate that they cant do that for her. when we lived closer we were always inviting her dad to come see her get awards at school, or to sports carnivals and things like that, but of course he would say NO, not a chance in hell. which is such a shame cos i know it would mean alot to chloe if her dad would come to things like that, it would even help there relationship. but you cant tell him that cos he knows everything when it comes to chloe ( so he like's to think) her old school rang me one time to tell me that chloe had been crying cos she didnt want to go to her dads, so i ring him to try and have a civil conversation with him about it and to let him know that this really is starting to become a problem, but of course he said it was b*ll s*it and there is nothing wrong with her we are all reading into it.
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