Huge hugs gorgeous lady . You are an awesome mum

This parenting gig is so hard at times! Having three "spirited" kids myself, I know what it's like. My sister always comments on how larger than life they are compared to her own kids (who are the same age), lucky me .

I have found mine all need different strategies. DD is so strong-willed that I've had to be much firmer with her. Kids seem to thrive with boundaries, even if it seems like they hate them . DD was becoming so cranky and full of attitude, I got to the point recently where I felt I didn't really like who she was becoming (how bad of a Mum am I ). I stepped things up a notch with her and started being much firmer in how I managed her (eg. speaking in a very firm, no-nonsense tone, etc.) and funnily enough she is becoming the happy little girl that she once was . She is playing happily again and I really enjoy hanging out with her again. I think she just feels more secure knowing Mum is in charge? I dunno!

My post probably sounds so mean , but I just wanted you to know that you're not alone .

Oh, and yes, take up all offers of help!! People love you and want to help.