Is it really that much harder going from 2 to 3?

[black_rose]

Hi mammaspice! Yes I think that age gap would be much easier, that when they are more independent it's easier to manage. My SIL has a similar age gap to what you hope to have and loves it, her hardest thing is keeping up with the washing and fitting things in between the school/kinder drop offs.

[onthefly]

I've heard it gets easy after 3, so just keep going if it's hard

[Boo Boo]

I found it harder going from 1 to 2 than 2 to 3 for some bizarre reason. Three is great, DD is a little mum and DS1 can't wait for DS2 to get a bit bigger so they can play together, they both love DS2 and he gets loads and loads of cuddles all day long