Sopdet I like that - meaningful relationships - as opposed to the idea of waiting for marriage. Pretty much for the reasons Nai gave, marriage might not be what they go for, it might not be realistic, if they are gay it might not be legal.

I want my children to value sex, I think it has become something of a throw-away item, having said that they know where the condoms are and are able to take what they need as they please. They can take them for their friends as well.

One of my proudest mummy moments was when Panda told me 'I was just telling S about how supportive you are and I told her she should talk to her parents about it'.
Made me feel like 'phew! I got something right'