Eek. I guess that what I think they need to know is that it's not an accurate depiction of life, gender or sexuality.
Pretty much that. I'm pretty secure that when the time comes they will learn through us what is healthy and what is not. My husband doesn't objectify women, and I don't objectify men. And this is the foundations for a healthy view for all things relating to sexuality including pornography. I do believe in the monkey see, monkey do when it comes to all aspects of parenting. And I am not in anyway saying that all porn is wrong. But I understand where you are coming from.