This is the thought process that REALLY ticks me off - because it quite clearly shows that one who thinks there is NO healthy/realistic/intimate pornography, has never really watched/seen much.

hmmm, i don't know. i really don't feel like wading through the sludge to find the 'good' porn so i can educate my kids on it.

Similarly, i am not going to try all the drugs or all the lifestyles or all religions, but i still feel that i can give my kids perspective on them.

it's a tough one