I hate co-sleeping, I will admit, but it's the only way for us to get any sleep so I will do it. I want my DH back though!

Look up colic in the index of baby whisperer and you'll see what I'm talking about.

Also, I did start as I mean to go on: responding to my son and aquiescing to his needs asap. That ain't "accidental", that's what we're designed to do. When needs become wants, that's the time to start saying no.