I thought I had the worst sleeper in history and it was my fault bc she always needs to be rocked or fed to sleep and she never self settled. I tried lots of different things and was at the end of my rope!! I finally took the advice from the trusty BB girls and gave up!! That's the only thing that worked. I just stopped trying to change her and did what she wanted and what worked. And I have seen massive improvements!! It really is just a phase and we are coming out the end of it now! Hang in there