Hang in there hun you are doing a great job (as you know)....

My DD has never been a very good day sleeper and if she sleeps longer than 45mins/1hr then that's a good sleep for her in the day time!! And night time we are still waking 1-3 times on any given night here too.... sometimes she'll only wake once a night and that's a good night. Occasionally she will sleep 8 or 9hrs straight!! She still feeds once a night (sometimes twice if growth spurt) and we're BF'ing.

She is nearly 9mths now and when she was about 4mths of age I decided I wasn't going to 'try' anymore and just went with the flow of her and if she wanted to feed to sleep, i would let her, if she wanted to be put down and fall asleep on her own, which she does sometimes, i would let her.... and i found doing that... just going with the flow of 'your' particular baby, is the easiest way about it.... and trying not to focus on how tired we are all the time. However I know you must be very tired with 3 young kids I'll be there one day

We do a bit of co-sleeping some nights it seems to give me that little bit extra rest I need rather than walking back and forth to her room.

The biggest thing I have learnt since becoming a Mum, is parenting out of instinct.... not what any book tells you... (however Pinky is really good I love her books!!) because at the end of the day it is YOU that has to live with the decisions/consequences/regrets or whatever..... just do what feels right.... i parent out of instinct, its the best way