I was just thinking about you today my dear and wondering if H has settled for you. Truely you need a big hug and thanks for the post too. I don't have any answers except to go with your gut feeling. I don't have the constant waking with Miss E but she is feeding for up 2 hours overnight. I have tried taking her off when I think she is just sucking for comfort but that ends up in a crying mess (both of us), so I just lay in bed with her attached to me and I drift in and out of sleep ( sort of). Whilst I am not getting a deep sleep I figure that a doze is better than nothing.