I just wanted to give you a hug and let you know that you're definitely not alone!! DD3 is like this, will only sleep on me during the day, and we hold her of a night time as well PLUS she co-sleeps with us - just so she actually gets some sleep!! She was born on the same day as SJ's girl and Jakabella's boy - so she's a day younger than your little dude.

It is hard, and stressful and some days I think I'm going to go insane!!! Then I heave a big sigh, give in and just sit on my fat butt on the couch and try to ignore the mess. And believe me, with 3 other kids running around - its a LOT of mess!! LOL

I think your DH should help out a little more and stop complaining. My DH doesn't complain at all, he just walks in and sees the mess and he knows its been a rough day for me. he doesn't judge, he just starts cleaning the loungeroom while I finish cooking dinner. Then he bathes ALL the kids while I clean up the kitchen after dinner. Then he dresses DD3 while I do some washing or cleaning up the stuff on the floor.

You need him to start pitching in to help you instead of just biatching about the mess. I mean, if he's wasting all this energy having a whinge about it, he would probably be better say ... washing a dish or two!! LOL

We all get it - we really do.