Seriously been there too with the Velcro wakeful baby, and it's very hard.

My dd liked a back carry while I did housework at that age...could that help? Otherwise will he watch tv (I know, I know, but you're desperate here). Can you hire a baby swing or vibrating rocker?.

At this point you need to ride out this phase. Your baby can't be 'fixed' and is doing exactly what he needs to do.

You need to survive this the best you can. Housework can be done by anyone. Your ds only as one mummy.