Tanya,
I am really happy that you are focussing on the positive aspects of your life. It is sometimes hard to 'not' dwell on issues and fall into a black pit, which not only affects you and your house-life, but your children too. This step also enables you to get out the house too!! Sometimes focusing on yourself, and your children, and making positive changes to your life can help show the way to the future. You will know in your heart the right time to talk to him, seriously, without conflict.

I know if I am in a stink with my DH, I clean and clear out furiously, madly scrubbing the house, not sure if this gets the point across but at least it keeps my mind busy, and not sit and listen to sad songs all day... (even though it is tempting!)

I am looking forward to meeting you, as well as another meet-up with the other girls. Today we are busy at home (well, I am - I cleaned house, car, and even dogs!) but hopefully next week I will have a morning to chill out with you ladies...

Hope everyone has a great FRIDAY!!