god bless you all.. thank you for caring. I was suprised to see replies so quickly.
I am located in Western Sydney...am currently going to Nepean Hospital for my specialist appointments...i know this sounds terrible and i am embarressed to say this but my husband and i cant afford to see anything but public help right now...
Another thing to my original message is that i was super excited about being pregnant again that i couldnt hold it in and told my close family and friends. I was so upset by so many of their reactions "Oh Nikkita dont tell me till your after 3 months to make it easier on you"... etc etc... has anyone else been in the same situation? i just think that after everything that if i am brave enough to tell the people closest to me that they should be excited aswell... i mean, they are the ones that are meant to care for me if anything bad happens... strange.
Nikkita: Don't be embarrased about going to Nepean Hospital. Apparently they have a wonderful high risk unit and also a support group that I have heard about. I have just moved to Sydney and I am living at Blacktown so I not far away from you. When I moved to Sydney I started looking for Hospitals who came highly recommended and Nepean was one of them in terms of High Risk.
About your friends and families insensitve comments, to be honest, when you decide to conceive is none of their business. I would tell them that unless they have something positive to say, they can keep their opinions to themselves. What you need at the moment is support and encouragement, not to be judged.
I am 10 weeks pregnant and I gave birth to my angel not even 5 months ago. Most of the women here will agree, the clock doesn't stop ticking when you are a childless mother and the urge to have a child doesn't go away, it only gets stronger.
Just know that everyone here will support you and I am excited for you and your DH and this miracle pregnancy.
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