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thread: Pregnancy after Late Loss, Recurrent Miscarriage or Stillbirth ~ November 2010

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    I reckon the doofus would do it though I'm so torn, I don't want to be induced at all, but I want to meet this baby now! That's why I'm convincing myself that every twinge is something important I frustrate myself sometimes *sigh*


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    Better to keep cooking Cookie for a wee bit longer hun, you'll meet bubbie soon enough! Try and rest and relax as much as possible before bub comes, believe me, you'll need all the energy for the birth and when bubbie is here! lol.

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    Hi girls

    Teni I sooo hear you on wanting the bub out! I am so ready! But as Miss B said, our little ones are probably better off baking a little while longer if we can hold out!

    Laney, that blood clot doesn't sound good. Hope the thinners do the trick.

    Miss B, I can't believe Cam is almost 1!! How fast time has gone! Is your DH still in China?

    AFM, nothing much to report. Stitch is still in as my ob wants to take it at 38 weeks like he did last time. Bubs is still not engaged which apparently isn't unusual in subsequent pregnancies but it is a little annoying because my ob won't commit 100% to the stitch removal date and induction in case baby changes position. I have to see him again on the 28th when I will be 38w+1 and he will do an internal and see what is going on in there. Yay, that will be fun! If all is good, he will take the stitch a few days after that in the labour ward. In the meantime I have a fitball I plan to take up position on in a bid to encourage the baby to move into a nice position. It is still head down at this stage so I am trying to stay positive that it will remain that way as I really, really, really want another vaginal birth.
    This morning I woke at 4.30am with some pains that were radiating into my back and had to go to the toilet for more than a wee () which never happens at that hour of the morning and I had tightenings but they fizzled out after a little bit. Maybe I won't make it to the next appt...wishful thinking I am sure
    I'll keep you posted anyway - Laney, maybe if you see any updates on facebook from me about birth you can let the ladies here know for me if you don't mind?

    Take care everyone xx

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    DH is home safe and sound! Maybe now things will calm down a little bit around here.
    I have another doctor appt. on Wed. I had an ultrasound done on my leg and they didn't see a clot. I am going to assume that with my history and a bunch of clot symptoms, I will still have to be on blood thinners for a while.

    Jo, I will be stalking you on FB! I will be sure to post as soon as I see any news! I can't believe that it is time already!

    Miss.B I cannot believe you are planning a first b-day party already! It sure does go fast! Anymore news on when you are going to be ready to try for another bubba?

    Teni, those last couple of weeks are very difficult and long. Make sure you have a few date nights and enjoy your last few sleep ins

    Dory, Grayson is doing really well, thanks for asking. He really enjoys getting out of the house more and playing with other kids. It is difficult for all of us to get used to such a big change in our routine but I know that it will get easier. It has to!
    I missed your post about the blizzard! It just missed us! It is still very cold and we have a little snow but a warm up is on the way!

    Dory, I just noticed that you have an angel day coming up. Know that I will be thinking of you.

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    Teni - I am with Jo and B - it's pretty normal to want to meet Cookie, NOW, especially as the pregnancy discomforts increase and you draw nearer to your EDD. But I understand your feelings, had them myself not that long ago.... I kind of convinced myself that I WOULD enjoy every week of my pregnancy and I got to 40, and then it was time for HB to make her entrance, fashionably early. Keep strong, you can do it.

    Laney - thankyou... I love the new photo of Brexton - look at his dark hair! What a cutie! Glad Grayson is going well with his new routine. It must be challenging to get more than one little one out the door. Glad DH got back from the middle east ok.... he's not going back any time soon is he?

    We are finally going to inter the ashes for all our bubs on 23rd Feb. Will be a big day. 2 years to the day and time that our lives were so dramatically changed- when we truly knew love and heartache all at once. As you know it feels like only yesterday..... but I am so glad to have emerged from the shadow of the desperate and overwhelming grief. I am a bit worried it will all descend on me again on Wednesday... really it's like having their funerals all over again. But ... it's time.

    I just couldn't face the prospect of doing it while I was pregnant with Hannah, as in all honesty I truly didn't believe I would bring her home, and it always seemed that before then I was pregnant or in the pit of despair with grief and didn't have the money either.... it's all a very expensive business really. But, the time is right now.

    We've ( well I am making arrangements, DH says he doesn't know what he wants and has always been happy with what I've done before he says), had some balloons printed with an inscription - "beloved babies, Amelia, Nicholas and Sophie - loved eternally - fly free" So we'll be releasing some balloons - all different colours - just like a rainbow. I've also arranged to release some butterflies. I am going to prepare a little booklet, with some special words from DH and I in it, we've done one for each of the funerals, so why not for the interrment? We have some music to play. I have asked a friend to take some photos. It will only be DH, myself and Hannah, but I would like some photos to remember the day. It will be outside, rain, hail or shine. It's pretty hot weather here at the moment.

    Jo - I am soooooooooooooooooooo excited for you. I remember asking my obs to take my stitch out at 37 and he resolutely said no 38. Even an extra week can make a difference. Did you have steroids to help bubs lungs develop the surfactant ( in case bubs came early)?

    Beata aka Miss B - I am so disorganised when it comes to planning - actually no - the planning is good, I just have trouble with the deciding what I want to do. GL with organising Cam's 1st birthday... I am already thinking vaguely about Hannah's and still have no idea.

    Powelly - how are you going? You've gone quiet.....

    AFM - well for about 90 mins today I thought I was mad to be wanting to TTC again..... little miss Hannah was just overtired or a bit hot, and she was grizzling and crying. I am ashamed to say I did raise my voice a little after an hour - telling her she was just being silly and it was enough. But then I picked her up and wiped away the tears from her blotchy red face and we had a shower together. Anyway, about 20 mins after the shower, she managed to drop off to sleep after a quick feed ( afterall all that grizzling is tiring. I would prefer her not to have her afternoon nap at 4.30pm but she needed it, and it would be cruel to her and intolerable to me to try to stretch her out to a later time to fit in with our usual routine. Ahh I hear her ... short nap I guess.

    I'll be back sometime.

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    Quick cryptic one from me (well, cryptic if you don't have me on Facebook, since i just spilled there )...

    Keep an eye out for "something" on Wednesday afternoon/night, maybe Thursday morning...


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    Teni - I don't have you on FB, so I'm gunna try and guess.... either you're in pre labour now or you got an induction date or a caesear date..... but by your post you seem happy enough , so YAY.. bring it on.

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    Ding ding ding, give dory a prize!

    I'm being induced Wednesday morning


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    excellent news... you've got a date, and that's really cool, cause you get to meet Cookie real soon. ( better than waiting another 2 weeks - be like being int eh 2ww again)...

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    My BA's up, I had Cookie yesterday morning


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    Hi everyone. New to this group! Just got a bfp yesterday. Tested this arvo with a clearblue digital and it came up pregnant 1-2 edd is Feb 14th


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    Welcome hun and huge congrats again!! I'm just a stalker here

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    Strange how now we question every ache and pain I have painful sharp pains in my lower belly and a lower back ache so I am resting up as moving hurts anyway. I am hoping it is just stretching pains as it doesn't feel like AF cramps.
    Laney any more news?

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    angelicdragon, i am worried at every little pain too. It just never ends. There is something new to worry about every day. I hope you feel better and that your pains are nothing to worry about.
    No new yet! It is still only 8:30am here though

    LysnDan, welcome to the thread.

    blessedatlast, i wasn't able to buy thing for Grayson until we HAD to. I think we got his room ready at 35/36 weeks and he was born at 37 weeks. It is so hard to let yourself believe that you will be bringing a baby home.

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    I went through Taite and Seth's stuff and I have so much baby stuff, I don't really need anything. Not for a while anyway. Also we didn't know what sex they were so most things are gender neutral. I will use their stuff for this baby. At first I wasn't sure, but I feel ok about it. Plus there are 2 of everything, so I can use 1 and keep one safe if it's really special. I gave my friend Yas an outfit, she is having a little boy. It was nice to give her something so special and I know she knew it was special too. She said she would put in on her Bub to bring him home.. .

    I have an appointment in Bris on the 20th and will probably have my 12wk scan the week after. Let the hospital visits begin I am glad I will be closely monitored. Any cervix change and I'll probably have a stitch.. I wont really know much else until I have my appointment and see what they say.

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    Had my blood test yesterday. Still waiting for the results. Should have them soon! In the meantime, poas like it's going out of fashion! Lol


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    I have POAS 9 times! The last time was just the other day. I had felt sick the week before and it went away and my bloating went down and no sore boobs.. I got all paranoid so wasted more money lol.. The test was positive of course, but I still have a spare in my cupboard. I bought a 2 pack lol.. Keep us posted on your blood results

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    Laney that is excellent. Grow baby grow

    LysnDan lol.. and Blessed, I think you should look up the hookeffect. Thats what I ended up doing coz some of my tests seemed lighter then they'd be dark again. I got a 50 pack of pregnow. I still have many to use but thinking I should keep some aside. The girl living with us at the moment is due the same day as we got AF the same day. Her tests are the same as mine and symptoms are the same. I know I should be reassured... but I know how quickly it can al lchange. She is 19 so no worries. My daughter is also due the same day and she is also 19. Tash (DD) is best friends with Peta (boarder) since high school. Quite a co-incidence we are all due together. Add in my sons ex-gf who has a new b/f and they are also expecting the same day. 4 of us... something in the water in Hobart. Tash and her DH have a little boy Alex who is 2 1/2.

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