Thanks girls..

Laney... i often do a stalk check on you to see how you are going!! I am sorry to read about your early chemical loss. Hopefully this month will be your month!! I know what you mean about not fitting in anywhere too- for some reason i always felt comfy in the preg thread- even before i was pregnant too- our whole ttc thread in my last pregnancy pretty much all moved to the preg thread before we were pregnant!! I think it brought us all luck too- so i hope it does the same to you!!

Sorry again for slack personals... i had a quick read through and sweet congrats to mrswpilgrim and dory for your bfps- it is long journey and i sincerly hope that it will be a successful one for everyone!!! A big to everyone for your losses.

"I just wanted to know how people coped with the worry that something will go wrong? "

That is the million dollar question- you dont and you just do. It is normal to be freaked out- and scared about things that "normal' pregnant women just dont blink an eye at- a perfect example is my stupid gp mentioning in passing the hb was a bit slow- "but dont worry" he said. Yeah freaking right i wont - thanks for that!!!!!
You learn to set milestones and get whatever reassurance you can or need- a good ob who allows you to have "crazy lady scans" (which are scans where the main purpose is just to show you that bubs is alive and kicking) is a godsend. And once you get further along- make friends with the midwives at the hospital- you can stop by the hospital anytime you are scared and request a ctg- which is a machine that measures bubs heart rate and movements. You dont get to "see" bubs- but it is still really reassuring to know if things are looking "normal"

And coming here- this site and this thread- its why people like klee and myself come back. Even though we both have babies (well little boys- they arnt babies anymore ) at home- we are still scared of the possibilty of something going wrong- and we surround ourselves with people who understand!!!

Speaking of little boys- mine wants to lay- so i am off...

Take care everyone speak soon xoxox