Oh darling I have so been there... I understand the planning, the well thought out stuff. The day Imogen was born I hadn't felt a kick for 48 hours or so - I had refused all dopplers because it wasn't going to change the outcome. When she was born alive it was shocking to me. I was absolutely shocked that I had a live baby.

What you are feeling is very usual. How you get through is a day at a time & letting it go. Knowing that no amount of worrying will change the outcome. That the most likely outcome is a live baby. That apart from a kick chart & listening to your inner Wisdom this is all you can do. Let it go.

But any Woman who has been where you have been knows this is far easier said than done. Just keep talking to us, keep reaching out & we will be here.