Hi that could be my story!!! I was extremly worried about what my Dh was going to say, but it was okay in the end. I too have had a few MCs and am not sure if baby will stick, but so far things look good with good HCG levels etc. Dh was supposed to get snipped on the 3rd July but somehow missed his appointment???? although i don't think it mattered as I would have already been preg. This is baby no 5 for us he would have stopped at no2... but no 3 was supposed to be...... DS got very sick and all of a sudden nothing else but our kids mattered, I had a big urge to have another baby so along came no4 she took some work, to get here 3 MCs and 18 months!!! so no 5 is really a surprise no biggie going to bigger numbers it actually gets easier. As far as sharing we have extended, but there is stilll going to be kids that have to share, who??? will wait and see what sex this baby is... I am over the moon as well, DH coming around.