My suggestion is to talk to someone who is independant before you make any decisions. Either your GP or someone from a support service at Uni. Your partner is in shock at the moment. Give the news some time to absorb and talk again.

You have a bit of time before you have to make any decisions. Take as long as you need to. The decision will say with you for the rest of your life, regardless what it is.

If you do keep the baby, it will be hard but very rewarding. My son is one of the most joyous aspects in my life (except for the poopy nappies of course!) and I wouldn't change him for the world.

if you do not keep the baby, it needs to be the right decision for you as you will have to live with the decision for a very long time. There are numerous options here as I am sure you know.

I am sure you will be a wonderful mother if that is what you choose, regardless of when that happens, either next year or in a few years time.

Good luck. BellyBelly is a great support and there are many ladies who have been in your position.