Im scared

[The[cookie]Doctor]

Oh hun .
Just to mirror your situation a little more - so did my DP and now he is the proudest Daddy in the world.
What is important is that you do what you want - not because it is solely your decision - but it is your body. Noone else can tell you what to do when it comes to your body.

I know it may eb hard - but talk to your mum. Sometimes, no matter how scared we are - they can be the greatest source of support. My mum let me talk about my fears of having an abortion and understood my hesitance in having a baby. A GP is a good idea, but your mum may be good to talk to as well.

Personally I couldn't have had a termination and if he left me I was going to be a single Mum. And I would have been a proud, empowered and strong single mum. Albeit life would have been a little harder - but it is doable. Especially with the support you will gain from BB.

If you want this baby / don't have the strength to have an abortion (that was more my case) these are some of the things you need to convince yourself to make it easier on you. Makes it easier when telling him too. You will be able to do it.

When considering what you would rather (as the impression Im getting is that he would leave should you choose not to abort - though I may be wrong) remember that if you have a termination to please him - it may tear you apart anyway.

I think you are showing great strength to come and here and talk about it already. Please let us know how things go.

Thinking of you.
x.