hmmm i don't want to sound negative but guys just don't understand, and cannot understand, what we go through, and it only gets worst once the baby arrives and pure exhaustion sets in.... they just do not 'get it'.... i don't think they are wired or programmed to get it.... i don't have any tips sorry... i can remember when our dd was 5 weeks old and i was recovering from the csection my DP and i having a fight that i didnt have everything into a routine yet.... i can remember him saying 'all you have to do is feed her, change her, and put her to bed - simple!'.... i was mortified that he thought things were that easy..... now 9 months later he 'gets it' a whole lot more, but i could have killed him during those first few weeks when he just could not comprehend how exhausted i was, he thought him going to work was harder.

oooops sorry, a bit off topic, just wanted to say don't be surprised if he never gets it, they are from a different planet sometimes ;-)