Well seems like most of us have partners very similar... All i get from mine is "i work 7 days a week and you work 2 all i ask is for the house to be tidy" i was walking round one day with a bucket throwing up just to get the house clean for him when i decided enough was enough, my DP thinks that just cos i'm at home 5 days (looking after our 3/yo son) i dont do anything... he doesnt realise that looking after a child is work.. its tiring and hard work... especially a child on the go like ours...After weeks of MS and me talking to a brick wall about how and what i was feeling and going through.... I wasnt going to do it anymore... enough was enough
TMI alert but true story.......
I turned his alarm off one morning rang his work to tell them he wouldnt be in and when i woke up at 8am to me throwing up in the loo he startd freaking out i'm late etc... I told him what i had done so he could see how bad i was in the mornings... It was a great day of MS too, every sip of water, every bit of food came up, the smell in the house was enough to make anyone sick (purposley left the windows closed to exagerate the smell more) every time i threw up i made it sound louder and wasnt as low down as i usually would be so it splashes and made it sound absolutley discusting...I was trying to clean up all day even didnt quite make it in time to the loo just so make him feel really bad....Especially when our 3 y/o was "u ok mummy, Jordy help"..... in the end he was like babe sit i'll do it..... Babe want a drink of water, etc
Ever since then he's gotten off my back... When i had a good day i'd utilise it and clean up for him (and myself hate a messy house) but if i was having a bad day i wouldnt mind just resting... ALso hard with a 3 y/o as well....
Hope your Dp gets off your back if not try my tip... It works..... its grosse but it got results....
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