Thanks for all of your responses. I helped knowing that I wasn't the only one going through this.

My DH ended up having a HUGE fight where I basically told him to either leave the house or I was, and he ended up storming out - which was a blessing in disguise.

I jumped on the computer and started to write him a letter. Not the "I hate you and never want to see you again" type, but a letter saying everything I wanted to say to him, withot me yelling and without him interrupting me (which is a bad habit with us both )

He ended up coming back before I had finished. Surfice to say I was having a cry at the computer. He came up to me, told me to look at him and then he apoligised. He said he knows that he should be more supportive and understanding and he doesn't know why he has been such a pri*k. I ended up sobbing in his arms for 1/2 hour.

It was nice, lovely and very sweet of him the way he said it. Reminds me why I married him