Good on you mrsmac! I always found the hardest part for me was that first "social" outing. Where you and a few friends would normally all sit around chatting and "spark up" ..nothing has changed now except for the fact your no longer "sparking".. that was the hard part for me.. i caved so many times. I think its really great that we can all be honest and open regardless of the few comments which have been a tad bit judgmental