we told everyone almost straight away... the family we told the same day
If anything happens I felt it was good that everyone new so that way we would have heaps of support... and also they would have understood if we just wanted to deal with it on our own but I think they felt good and special that we told them all so early.

I feel that it helps to get your fears off your chest.. that way they are out in the universe and expelled from your mind and heart... what ever the universe returns to us is the unknown... but at least we are some what prepared when we have shared our fears

thats my thoery anyway

xoxoxoxo