Well I told Michelle and everyone else on BB, days before I even told my DP!
as far as family, we have only told my mum / dad and DP's mum / and bf. We both told our bosses before anyone else mainly because of all the trouble we had with Max and the need for extra ultrasounds and hospital appointments therefore time off work.

We probably wont be telling anyone else until after we receive the results of our NT scan, and then it will only be very close family and friends. Once we have the 18 week anatomy scan I might be ready to tell everyone else.