Thanks heaps boomba *hugs* and everyone else. I know the fathers parents are going to be a problem as well as they are very VERY catholic and we will be attacked with stakes and holy water on arrival (ok maybe a bit of an exaggeration), well will probably just never speak to their son again. I know my mum and grandparents (well one set) will be fine, my dad may never speak to me again but he hated me while I lived at home so it will probably just go back to how it was then.

I find it very hard not to tell everyone everything i am an open book and keep having people ask me what's wrong I want to run down the street skipping yelling "im going to have a baby!" lol but just can't bring myself to do it yet..