Yeah I think some people talk first - think second!!!!

When I first got preggers with this one, I went to a doc to confirm the pregnancy (I was 4wk 2days) and he said to me "come back when you are 13 weeks, because 1 in 3 pregnancies end in miscarriage and I don't want to see you before then".

I was like.. uh.. yup... ok.. new doctor!!!!

Really, people should just keep their mouths shut. We know the odds. We don't need negatives when most of us stress out enough already about it!!!!!

I totally sympathise..