Thank you Tan. I know its going to be hard and I am reading as much as I can about what is happening and what is going to happen. I just want to enjoy my pregnancy as we have decided that we only want the one child. So if that plan stays in place then this is it for me and I don't want to have my experience ruined by people who want to include me into their unhappy experience. I know its going to be tuff but I also want to grow as a person through this. I guess part of that growth will be learning to ignore these people.