Hi Bertie,

Thanks for your support, it's nice to hear from someone else that it's ok to feel the way i do about the whole situation.
Like your expecting with your in in-laws, I thought they'd be on the phone straight away but how wrong was I. Hope all goes well when you tell your family.
Sorry yes my BIL and SIL are a married couple with two kids. They aren't having any more children so surely it can't be jealousy. SIL's sister is due to have a baby this Saturday so thinking maybe thats why there has been not congratulations happening with us, but that's no excuse as far as I am concerned.
My mum said to me the other day, if they haven't aknowledged the pg yet, how long will it take them to say Congratulations AFTER the baby is born? I guess only time will tell. Certainly not going to hold my breath.

Thanks again for your support i needed it.
Take care Leah