Hi Leah, first of all YAY at another Novocastrian on here!! Yippee!

Secondly, what is it with in-laws? Are they all brain dead morons? Mine were the extreme - they were over the top excited at first and then nothing since. I get really annoyed at it all, as it seems to me like I am only seen as an "incubator" for their grandchild. Even DH's brothers and sister haven't been all that interested in our pregnancy.

I also had a few friends who were less than excited for us, and it really hurts.

DH and I had to go through 3.5 years of IVF before we conceived, so you would at least think our good friends and family would have been excited for us.

I have just decided to concentrate on the friends and family that are being helpful and lovely about the whole pregnancy and decided that the ones that aren't excited or even remotely interested, I will not bother with. its hard, but please don't let it get you down.

Im excited for you! A BIG CONGRATULATIONS from me....