Dana,

Sorry to hear that your in-laws haven't congratulated you on such a wonderful event.
I totally agree with you about calling when bub arrives . Why should we bother to call, i mean they haven't even had the decencey to congratulate us now so to me thats pretty much saying they don't care, so why would they care when bub doe's arrive.
It's sad to think that your own family (sorry in-laws) be so rude. How must it make our DH's feel to know that there own brothers or sisters don't seem to care.

Take care Leah