Oh and btw about calling when I have the baby, my DH has had several "goes" at his parents for their behaviour during this pregnancy, and he has told them that he no longer wants them to be involved in our childs life.

He has made it pretty clear to me and everyone else that he will not be calling his parents when the baby is born, he just doesn't want them around, like I said before - if Im only seen as an incubator, and they aren't interested in the baby or me now, then why should they have any interest when the baby actually arrives???? [-(