BG we are doing something quite similiar to you. We have a list, but we are leaving the stuff that is commonly given at baby showers til last, just so that we don't double up too much if people do choose to buy it for us. e.g. socks and singlets and one piece outfits, lotions and potions, nappies. Everything else we have bought what we need or will before the baby gets here. I tend to see people's gifts as a bonus, and I am not relying on getting anything as a gift. As for the sheets, we have four sets as well, and its only a normal cot!!!