I am shocked that you let him talk you out of going. I wouldn't have let him in the driver's seat and just dropped him and the kids off for his precious pizza so you could go get checked out at the hospital.
You and bubs are important here not pizza. Pizza can be bought and eaten any day but a baby can't just come and go as easy as a pizza.

I've had PE symptoms but wasn't classed as PE. The only thing was normal urine tests. So just know any sypmtoms of raised BP is a concern please please get checked out tomorrow if you haven't already tonight. Get the local yellow pages to find a Dr and see someone. Don't let your Dh make you think you are not important. He sounds like part of the reason your depression may be creeping back up. I would also mention to your Ob/m'wives about the lack of support your Dh is giving you right now. Every little bit of info you can tell them about you will help them give you better care.

Best of luck