All my friends & family know that this baby is through Ivf, I got used to being open with our fertility issues after nearly 6 yrs of ttc. But even when I'm out (like shopping/cafes) and people ask me about my pregnancy (like if it was planned) I always reply 'very much so', and usually a conversation about Ivf follows. I'm proud that me & my dh have endured so many years of ttc, m/c's, fertility treatments & have come out the other side with not only a baby, but with our relationship still as strong as it was. We are unexplained too. ; )

I get that others are more private though and that they may just want to enjoy their pregnancy in the 'normal' way. And if you're not ready to share (now or ever), then you don't have to.

It would be nice to conceive naturally (and so much cheaper!), but I feel the end result is more important than how you get there. Congrats again. Xx