Me4ever, altgought I really haven't had the journey you have, we still had a journey to get to where we are.
IVF or natural it shouldn't matter what you tell people, but when people have known about our journey it's helped others close to us ask and get answers too. We have 2 couples close to us that have endured a painful journey so far. But it's bought us all closer being able to share experiences and although I am pregnant (38 weeks) they aren't bitter or any thing similar because I've shared my journey with these amazing couples.
I think what I'm trying to say is, please don't be afraid or ashamed to say bubs is an IVF miracle.