All my family and friends know this ones an IVF bub. When people in the street congratulate me I tell them we are thrilled and it was a long time in the making. If they go on with the conversation I usually say its IVF and lucky number 7th transfer. Everyone has been so supportive and then goes on to tell about someone they know that had trouble. DH also says its an IVFer.

Everyone is already asking me about number 2 and I say at 42 and after 8 cycles of IVF there will be no number 2. And then they go on to say maybe I will fall pg naturally. Yeah. Ok. Sure.

I guess its what ever you feel comfortable with