thread: Does knowing gender help you bond??

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  1. #29
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    Apr 2010
    Foothills of the Blue Mountains, West Sydney, NSW
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    Hey hun... So glad things are feeling that bit better for you now I absolutely LOVED my 3D ultrasounds with my DS as I agree, they are so bonding and fun! Nothing beats seeing your baby moving around inside you! I was able to record it and have the DVD and pics as a keepsake which I treasure. It all becomes a memory too quickly. I did also find out the gender (we were lucky enough to find out at 13 weeks!!!) and DH & I kept it between ourselves which we absolutely loved - having something so intimate a secret between us. I would not do it any other way (however on BB I announced it etc). To me, finding out the gender definitely impacted on my bond with my baby. I got the boy I so very much wanted and it really made it so special and intimate knowing in my experience and I would definitely do it the same way next time. I just could not imagine not knowing whether it was my boy/girl inside me!

    Good luck with it all


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    Last edited by *Danni*; October 28th, 2011 at 09:15 PM.