Hi there,
I have a friend who has been married for 3 years now and has been trying for a baby since. Her only attempt was prior to her wedding, where she got a BFP, but miscarried the night before her wedding

So her and Dh continued trying time and time again. Each time ending in a negative result. Now that im pg i was hestitant in telling her at first as she had told me many times that when other people she knew found out they were pg, she would get jelous of them and 'hide' away from them, not speak to them or want to associate with them.

So i waited til i was around 12 weeks before i told her, and she done the same to me. Ignored me until i come out with what i was feeling. Its not my fault im pg (without trying what so ever) and she has been trying for 4+ years to no avail.

She finally apoligised to me for how she started speaking to me, and treating me because i had what she has not yet. But i cant help but feel she is hiding something from me.

She is forever asking how bub is going, how big im getting etc.
She tells me she has seen doctors and specialists but theres nothing that her and DH can do but wait.

How should i go about it?

I partly feel so guilty and to blame and if i could give her a child i would.