Kim, Its a difficult situation to be in, i know i have just been there myself, I have a very good friend who has been TTC for a few years now and is now about to embark on IVF, I found out only last week that im pregnant and she knew all about the miscarriage i had in Jaunary and the time since it has taken to fall pregnant again and was always asking me "any news yet", so when she asked me other day i could not lie to her but said i felt so bad as i did not want hurt her feelings, she said "don't ever think you can't tell me anything, thats great news", but since that day i have not heard from her, i've text her and heard no reply, so i can't really offer any advice but wanted to let you know that you are not alone!