Aww, if you were a failure then so would every other pregnant woman! Keep doing what you are doing, you are doing a perfect job.

You can have coffee each day (just not bucket loads!) without any problems, I had a cup a day with DS2 and he is just fine.

From all you previous posts I have read I know you are going to be a very caring and doting mum, you already are! It sounds like your DH is 100% behind you too, you sound like a great team!

You are doing a wonderful job!