One more thing to add which is really important...

DH is generally a very supportive person who has helped me through a lot over the years, I can usually rely on him with anything and everything, it just (as some of you have said) he can be VERY stubborn and when he gets his mind set there is really no changing it.... He definately gets that from his mother! He does his very best to talk everyone around to go along with him, but sometimes that doesn't work and I get my nose out of joint.

He was really upset with all of my crying yesterday after the scan, which I wasn't doing to try and get him to change his mind, it was just raw emotion, but it didn't even get him thinking.

Please don't think he's a horribe person, cuz he really is a sweet heart. We live and work together so being together 24/7 can build up feels over time then they all start over flowing at times like these.

Thank you once again everyone.