oh sweet, i am in your boat.
My DH is a lovely man, but he can be so pig headed and stubborn. it doesnt help that i am stubborn also lol.
Dh sometimes makes choices and decisions without taking my feelings into consideration which is very frustrating and hurtful, this is something we are working on, well i am at least
Dh was all "no drugs" as well but i made itclear that i wasnt keen n drugs but if i needed theem i would have them, he didnt mind gas but nothing else.Turns out he wasnt there for the birth anyway and i ony used gas,
as far as the sex thing, this time we both wanted to find out which was good, like you our next baby will most likely be the last baby we have so id like to keep it a surprise just so i know what its like, but he's mde it very clear that we are finding out. i have plenty of time to work on him but i doubt ill change his mind.
Your hubby does sound supportive, i know as he sounds just like mine lol.
Good luck sweet.
i hope it all works out without too many tears xxx