wow - this thread is running hot again!!

I think at the emd of the day, different questions/assumptions/attitudes will hit hot buttons for different people.

As I said, I didn't get too angry about this one (but understand that it would be offensive to some) and more was surprised that anyone would be shocked that someone of my age, married several years, and who openly had voiced the desire to have babies would (oh, horrors) be pregnant ...

But I got really narky when people kept on assuming I was going to quit my job and be a SAHM. :shakeshead:

I don't know why it wound me up so much, but I felt really judged and condemned by people who clearly don't think it's appropriate for the woman to work while the man is at home ...

while I'm sure lots of people wouldn't be offended by those assumptions ... I guess different things just push different buttons