When I fell pregnant with my first baby my best friend of ten years, actually rang and abused me for falling pregnant. As she had been trying and another friend had been trying and both had no luck. I was newly married at the time (which doesnt matter) but she told me I was showing everyone up by falling pregnant. She also said that my sister-in-law who had been trying unsuccessfully would now ignore any children I had, and would find it hard to come to family functions etc.

Now almost 9 years since then, I have moved on. I was devestated at the time that my best friend could do this, however now I am probably better off to be rid of a negative friend. My sister-in-law loves me and my children and the friend was using her as something to drive me down.

I remember being so upset that people thought I was going to miscarry.

Moral of my story. My friend and I eventually tried to rebuild a friendship but the trust and love had gone. I have now got a whole new base of friends which I have met through my children and socially. And you will too.

That kind of negative anti=pregnancy crap, needs to be told hey its your loss, becuase where you lose one b"""" you find another 3 true friends in my opinion.

Chin up. And stick to the ones who love you for you!